Change~

CHANGE... CHANGE... CHANGE...

When we were young, our parents asked us to change our attitude to be successful in life. Then, during school life, teachers thought us to change the way we think to achieve our ambitions. Followed by dearest friends who asked us to change in order to see a new world that waiting with plenty of oppurtunities to win in life..


But, the question now is how many of us really have done it??? Its actually too radical and complicated to change things suddenly.


Imagine those who were born as left handed person. These people are normally been forced and encouraged to use their right hand to do things. Basically its because people believe in such a way that usage of right hand which eventually carries a positive energy could actually bring good luck or fortune. Whereas, left hand is known to carry a negative energy that is not really good to do things. This may seems simple for the person who insist or order to do so but it will be highly difficult for the person to accept and practise it in their daily life. Simply saying, its easy to ask or advise others to change but its really difficult to do that for our own. But, is it a necessary change? Think of that first.


It may seems like not making any sense, but changes are sometimes not just to adapt but to gain more than that. So, think before we change. As we grow up, things will get more complicated and challenging. If we still stick on to our normal behavior and expect others to change, it is impossible. We should change ourselves first before waiting for others to do so.

In other words, we are also responsible to think twice before we correct our attitude. Change only for relevant reasons and beneficial things. Do not simply modify yourself for someone else which finally will not mean anything for you.

Sometimes, although we try very hard to change something, but believe me or not, its not that simple. It will consume so much of your time and energy to do so. Therefore, when you put so much of courage and effort in making changes, make sure at last you deserve the change and stay loyal to it. Once you change, remember to remain in it. There is only one way in change, no 'u' turns at all...!!